Here you will find some of the most relevant and up to date swingers information to help make your experience in the swing lifestyle as enjoyable as possible Learn how to create your new swingers personal ad and responding to emails to different swing terms and meanings This ia lifestyle full of fun and exciting swingers parties and swingers clubs and it will provide you with many opportunities to make and meet some life long friends.

There are many benefits when couples enter into a swinging lifestyle. Swingers get to explore their sexuality and sensuality in new ways that they find are not easily accepted in traditional communities They get to dress up at swinger parties and swinger clubs and explore their wild and adventerous sides They get a chance to let loose from the day-to-day chores of their normal lives to be free and express themselves in various different and exciting ways.

Swinging it a good way for bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where many may feel uncomfortable or unwelcome. Swinging allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy and feel free from others who may judge their choices in life.

Individuals can also explore and learn lots more about their sexual interests. Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couples relationship It allows them to act out fantasies to enhance an already active sex life and take it to another level

For any bi-curious or bi-sexual singles or swinger couples who wants to enter into swinging it usually requires a strong level of trust and security. For many people watching their partner sexually involved with another is obviously very hot and arousing in and of itself. By becoming a swinger it also allows you and your partner to make many new friends in the lifestyle who share the same joy in swinging.

A swingers lifestyle is free from a world of judgements and boredom. The swingers lifestyle simply gives and receives pleasure and many different levels. There are, however, a few important things to remember if you are looking to enter a swinger lifestyle:

-No one should swing unless they really want to.
-No one should ever go into a swinging lifestyle if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner
-Couples should always abide by the NO means NO rule and no partner should ever force their significant other to do something they wish not to do

A swingers lifestyle is based upon communication more then any other factor. Couples involved in the swingers lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another as this is the cornerstone to making this lifestyle choice one that you will enjoy for many years to come. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the lifestyle because without it you may find yourselves feeling insecure with one another or worse yet lose the trust you once shared.

We have been swinging for many years now and we have never been involved with or seen anything that has ever made us feel unsafe. ?We can say with certainly that swinging or anything for that matter is 100% safe.

• Never give detailed info in your profile
• Exchange a lot of emails and Instant Messages before meeting other swingers
• If the other party is very pushy then politely let them know that you are no longer interested
• Only give personal info when you feel comfortable
• Ask for their telephone # or exchange #s at the same time
• Talk on the phone before meeting!
• Always tell a friend about the relationship, where and when you will meet the person or couple and give them as many details as you can about the other party
• Let the other party know (subtly of course) that your friend is aware of your meeting and always first meet in a public place.
• Read their validations and testimonials from other swingers on the site
• USE COMMON SENSE.

Couples and individuals are attracted to the swinging lifestyle for a variety of different reasons.Always believe that swinging gives you and them a break from their jobs and every day routine and an escape from the demanding stress in their daily lives.

Others find that having sex with other people can be very arousing and fulfill many fantasies that they have been wanting to explore And yet others may find that swinging can become a medium for improving their own sex lives and relationships.

Through swinging, many people end up learning quite a bit about themselves and their sexuality. They start to attend swingers parties and swingers clubs where they feel a level or eroticism that they have never experienced before It is said that a swinging lifestyle can teach one to give and take pleasure in a way that they have never experienced before. Most couples find that having their partner actively enjoying and appreciating what they are experiencing during sex to be an incredible turn-on and one they think about when alone with their partner in bed

Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one`s partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type. Full swapping tends to occur at On-Premise Parties and Swing Clubs.

Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners. Soft swapping usually is in the form of oral sex with no penetration. It is a great way for swing couples to feel each other out before going to far or stepping over boundaries that they may have set for themselves.

The swingers lifestyle is exceptionally unique, incredibly sexxy and very diverse. Some couples are completely open and love anything and everything thrown their way while others enjoy taking it slow and enjoy smaller more intimate encounters. Most swingers live very ordinary lives as doctors, lawyers, teachers and mothers. However, once the weekends roll around look out as they are ready to let loose. Whether it be going to a swingers club or swingers party, attending a private house party, or just having some friends over they are ready to make the best of the evening.

There are many levels of involvement and in certain situations expectations of sexual activity so make sure you know which type of party you are attending before arriving. Maybe you are looking for a hot bisexual female or are looking to exchange spouses. Just be open and honest with those you are swinging with and you are bound to have an amazing time.

Once you start meeting all of these new friends we encourage you to invite them to create a profile on SexxyMofo.com so you can keep in touch and continue making new plans to get together.

There are many benefits when couples decide to enter into the swingers lifestyle. Swingers get to explore their sexuality and sensuality in ways others can only dream of. They get to live out life long fantasies and experience new ones they never could have imagined in their wildest dreams.

Swinging allows bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where many may feel uncomfortable or unwelcomed. Couples and singles can openly express their feelings and desires in a safe, comfortable environment.

Swinging can also strengthen and possibly enhance an already existing relationship and the commitment it takes when exploring the swinging lifestyle. Just remember to be honest with one another and keep that level of trust intact. Nothing should ever come between you and your partner when swinging.

The internet has made professionals out of amateurs, and has opened up the playing field for aspiring amateur swingers everywhere. Finally, there was an outlet for every girl next door, naughty housewife, swinging couple and amateur exhibitionist to share their passion for nudity and sex with the world.

The swinger lifestyle is broad, and the types of people who participate in it vary widely. Couples often go swinging together, whether to swap partners or engage in other types of swinging play. Some people who are not in relationships, or even those involved with another person, prefer swinging alone but many times single males find it hard to participate. These people are known as singles swingers. There are different types of swinging for suitable for all combinations of people, commensurate with their preferences and level of experience.

The smoothest way to ease into the swinger lifestyle is to start off by participating in soft swaps. Soft swap swinging can be divided into three distinct categories: overall soft swap swinging, same room swinging, and girl girl only swinging. In soft swap swinging, two couples swap partners, but do no more than kiss and have oral sex. Full penetration is reserved for your original partner only. Same room swinging entails two separate couples having sexual contact with themselves, and never switching partners at all. This type of situation enables couples uninitiated into the world of swinging to step into it gradually by becoming aroused by viewing the other couple, ideally leading to couple swapping. Girl girl only swinging involves only the females in the two couples playing together while the males simply watch. This is a highly popular form of swinging, since it allows the men to potentially become aroused by watching, and may satisfy bisexual or bi-curious women as well.

Full swapping (also known as wife swapping) occurs when two couples switch partners and engage in penetrative sex. This type of swapping doesn`t have as many subgenres, which may make the rules of proper etiquette less clear. Keep in mind the following simple, universal swinging etiquette tips:

1. Always be polite and friendly to those you swing with as this is a lifestyle where many people know each other. They may also be novices, struggling with their own insecurity and nerves.

2. Respect the boundaries and feelings of others. If you notice that someone is becoming uncomfortable with the proceedings, stop and let them decide whether to continue or not.

3. If you are not interested in a particular swinging situation, or for whatever reason you suddenly change your mind, you have every right to say no, but try not to give an explanation unless completely necessary. Oftentimes explanations will cause more hard feelings than just the refusal itself.

4. Always have condoms on hand. Whether the activity is occurring between men and women, or a combination, some people prefer the security of condoms, while others do not. It is a good idea to have them around just in case.  It is rare now a days that women will allow intercourse with someone other then their partner without a condom.

5. Drinking in a swinging situation can sometimes eradicate inhibitions, but be wary of drinking so much that your sexual performance is hindered. Drugs as a whole are not usually favored among swingers.

If you`re worried about how to meet people with the same interest in the swinger lifestyle as you, look no farther than your own keyboard and Internet connection and create your profile today on one of the countries hottest and most active swingers sites www.sexxymofo.com.  We make it easy to meet other swingers online without any embarrassment or awkward situations whatsoever. Just remember to reply politely to all messages you may receive, whether you`re interested or not. SexxyMofo make it safe and easy to find a variety of people with all sorts of swinging backgrounds who are interested in the same type of experience you are, whether it be soft swapping, full swapping, or a combination.

The word is quickly spreading all across the World Wide Web, all across the United States, and even overseas: SexxyMofo.com is becoming the premier website for adult swingers, bisexual women, interracial swingers, mature swingers, and amateur swingers to meet one another.

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Q: What are some common characteristics that Adult Swingers share?

Adult Swingers have a strong relationship built on communication, trust, and sexual liberation.

Adult Swingers are able to live out their sexual fantasies with other swinger couples or bisexual women.

Adult Swingers do not suppress their sexual desires, they are not sexually frustrated. Instead, adult swingers share their sexual fantasies with their partner and experience their desires with other adult swingers or bisexual women.

Q: What are some of the benefits of being an Adult Swinger?

Adult Swingers meet wonderful, open-minded, sexually expressive people.

Adult Swingers attend sexy, classy, and exciting parties.

Adult Swingers are able to fulfill all their sexual fantasies with no traces of regret or guilt afterward.

Q: Why is society so against Adult Swingers and the Swinger Lifestyle?

The United States was founded, in part, on a Judeo-Christian philosophy; a moral and spiritual philosophy that was based on marriage being monogamous. Stated another way: Many Americans are still conservative, suppressed, and close-minded.

Adult Swingers live a sexual lifestyle that goes against the grain of traditional values, traditional thinking. In the past, couples not active in the lifestyle had two options: (1) Fulfill ones sexual desires by having an affair or (2) Suppress the sexual fantasize one has with another man or woman, thereby being sexually frustrated.

Adult Swingers realize that there is now a third option: Living the swinger lifestyle offers a sexually liberating experience; a sexual liberating experience that both the man and the woman share.

Q: We are concerned that some of our life-long friends will abandon us or at the very least look at us differently if and when they discover we are our Adult Swingers. How do we handle that?

As Adult Swingers living the swinger lifestyle, you and your spouse essentially you have three options:

1. Talk to your friends and let them know why you are active in the lifestyle and hope they understand and still accept you as friends.
2. Realize that even after discussing with your friends why you are in the lifestyle that you still may lose those friends.
3. Decide to keep those friends and abandon the swinger lifestyle.

Q: As Adult Swingers, my wife and I sometimes wonder if too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Can you help us ease our concern?

As Adult Swingers, and as many different swingers there are available now out there, we at Sexxymofo.com do not believe that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Each person is unique; unique curves, tastes, likes, and dislikes. Experiencing the passion in different ways from different individuals will never be a bad thing €“ quite the contrary.

Q: How do we handle, in the midst of having swinger sex with another swinger couple or bisexual woman, if one of us has already had an orgasm and wants to stop, but the other partner has not?

The key with all swingers - adult swingers, bisexual women, interracial swingers, mature swingers, and amateur swingers - is communication. Before having sex with another swinger couple or a bisexual woman, swinger couples should discuss the "what if's." What if I have orgasm and you have not? Are you going to stop or keep going? What if I need to use the restroom and you do not? Do you continue without me in the room or wait until I return? Knowing the answers to different What if will eliminate any potential awkwardness during sex.

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Swingers sex is very erotic and open minded.
Couples can live out their fantasies during swingers sex and have erotic experiences they can share with their partners together.
Swingers sex can be done in private homes or in swingers clubs.
Sometimes swingers enjoy having sex in front of others (voyeurs) or behind closed doors.

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The mass media often portrays swingers are very risque and living a dangerous, risky life - but the fact is most swingers are much more cautious about safety and safe sex than their single counterparts. After all, these are generally couples playing together, so you have someone on your side planning with you at all times.
You are simply not winging it as you often do in the singles scene.

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Swingers who are experimental in their sexual activities tend to be very close as they share in intimate experiences together.